He won't leave. Im hooked.. Alright so there was strong chemistry but if he decided there wasnt anything else there except the sexual intensity or hes no ready to be in a relationship, he would decide to ghost. Its called by many folks as a meat market where people can pick up other people to hook up but most of them are not looking for anything serious. Hi I am a Scorpio, with a Pisces mask, Scorpio moon, and joined a social media app (not fb) just recently. Well I got to meet his sons and fell in love with the kids. Calmness, being rational, and gentle is the only way to get along with a Pisces to the extent that they wont pull back. Then he told all of the other trumpets that it was that day. Start looking for the things that give him away. Through April weve been FaceTiming and texting non stop. One of the signs, when a Pisces man is done with you, is that he will go silent, wont return your calls or texts, and basically, you wont be able to get a hold of him. Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. He is 2 faced sort of, he has a gemini moonhe acts super nice to me but says otherwise with ppl. My story is actually a little different but i would love some advice, im a virgo woman in a relationship with a pisces man and so it start out when i met him at a party in 2018 and his eyes dont leave me soon as i walk through the door, later on that evening we got aquatinted and i gave him my goodies a little too early but months went by and he still kept in touch then out of the blue got a girlfriend so we stopped talkin of course then almost a year late they broke up and he wanted my friendship so we ended up gettin cool again and hangin out with eachother and after a while of that December 2nd of 2020 rolls around and he decides he wants to be my boyfriend so i say yes then 3months into our relationship he decides wants to see what its like with another girl then 3short days later he apologizes and tells me it was a mistake and he wants to be with me then 2short days go by and he tells me something is missing and i tell him he can never come back now almost a week has went by and he come back saying he misses me now i dont know if im being played with or if he really does want to be with me and just is scared. We were put in a trumpet group chat and one day I wanted to ask him a question so I direct messaged him. You need to tell him that you want him to treat you normal and take you out with him from time to time. We woke up next morning, with him seeming aloof and no sign of tenderness. Let go of your need for revenge. Even if I require validation, I know that I can change that, which is not a good enough reason to say we are not a good fit. I kid you not!! But after that year for 2 years weve been in a situation ship where we would talk once in a while everyday and then have sex but no label. These guys are super sensitive to other peoples emotions, but this also gives them a great amount of power because they know how to push peoples buttons. So this Pisces guy was really sweet at first we talked for like 3 months he called and text me on a regular but when I invited him over we didnt have sex because I felt like he was still sleeping with his ex well he was extremely sweet when he left not rude or anything but I havent heard from him.. so I reached out and he writes me back but then ghost me again so I reached out just to let him know I really like him and his response was chill out I didnt respond back because Im like of you dont like me just keep ignoring me Im so confused Im a cancer women with an Aries moon and a Capricorn rising and I still cant figure this guy out hes a March 10 baby.. we had AMAZING CONVERSATION sometimes I dont know if he likes me or did I make everything up. Im a Cancer, and I was talking to a Pisces guy who liked me a lot; however, at the time, I wasnt able to dedicate enough time to the relationship, so things ended between us. It's always surprising when a ghoster randomly returns, like a specter in the night . I ever had, it just about knocked the wind out of me., From the beginning we had a great Connection. He broke my heart in pieces and so I spent a lot of time grieving as I was super young. Hed just do something petty to get vengeance. Pisces men are run by their emotions sometimes. Pretending everything's forgiven when it's not, just so you can ghost him right back, will most likely backfire. I know this is long and full of fluff but I had to tell someone. I began to text him more and tried to be around him when I got the chance. You may not believe in this sort of thing, but they surely are very intuitive and able to feel others' emotions. Now I know that someone else likes him. Both parties have to be willing to do the work. My experience with some Pisces men is that they have an idealized version of their past ex, and they keep playing that story in their heads on repeat, when in reality, that ex, or their past experience with her, wasnt as great as they have made it up in their mind. He broke down and cried and said he wanted me. He will text me every once in a while, but he does have a girlfriend who resembles me a lot scarily. Required fields are marked *. We are now best friends according to him and he still takes me on dates and stays over sometimes. He introduced me to his family and friends. Be bold and brave! He does know I recently lost my job due to this pandemic and his always been so understanding and supportive about it even used to give me money for no reason and without asking either but that has stopped and I really dont mind Ive never asked for it anyway. When I tried to understand what exactly turned him off and explain myself in case of misunderstanding, he didnt seem to like it very much, he said this is my gut feeling, what would you do if you were me? I said in general I give some time to people. I need some help. Yes Pisces men and women are different mainly due to hormonal differences. If he cares, he will answer you and tell you if he still wants to keep going with it or if he wants out. I think that in time hell finally give in and give it the title you want. Im not saying all Pisces men are liars and cheaters. Represented by a pair of fish, Pisces is the final sign in the Zodiac. I feel like he is the one for me and he tells me the same and wants a future with me. My first love was a pisces and Im a capricorn, also his first love. We share the same values and interests but sometimes disagree with one anothers practices) He was more relaxed in the moment. So I send h a text that if he needs more time it is his Im not going anywhere and I also send him this very nice song. So I think 3 weeks passed and I started talking to him again. Maybe months or years down the road youll bump into him or send a random text and he may reply but trust that unless hes over everything, he likely wont start anything up with you again. I love your feedback! But just as the article said, he never delivered. Ask him if hes alright or if something has changed between you. Im sorry youve had a harrowing experience with yours but keep in mind that we all have the 12 signs in our birth charts. Blessings! He promised me more time and more dates and although his off season just started I dont wanna stick around and wait to see if these things will happen because I just feel like his intentions are good but his execution isnt especially since he told me he never really had a real relationship because women doesnt understand he doesnt have regular people time because of what he does so he doesnt know how ti prioritize good. Why do that if he isnt into you? Even Ive apologized to my pisces man sincerely and bare my soul for him to see, he is still being a bit distant with me and it hurts. So now today I texted him about giving me money for birth control and he just ignored me. So we spoke about so much and by the sound of things it seems as though he seems to see me in his future but this man has never taken me out on a date weve just always hung out at one of his houses lol. Then again he asked me to buy him a $500 i-tunes gift card. I recently moved into these apartments for the first time and 2 months later he does too. Why give up hope now where there is so much more for the two of you to experience together. I kind of stayed with my group of friends. How To Make a Ghoster Regret 1. If you cannot put your foot down or walk away then youre going to keep getting more of the same. If I knew for certain, I could be patient with him and his mood swings. But if you have tried those options already and his distant behavior has not changed, he may just need to be reeled in. He was soo much fun that night. The miscarriages were probably the universe saying dont have kids with this guy at least not now. Bring Him Back Down to Reality. We also slept together but this didnt work out very well, which I did not consider a big issue as it was the first time (nervousness) and we also had a lot of wine. Sunday came he went to church and coming back he told me he needs to complete his studies. 5. When hes done, he will likely become quiet. You need to figure out if you have a chance at a future with him or not. Its weird. Pisces men cool off when theyre dealing with lots of stress just like a Cancer would typically. And then today he texted I gave a short simple response a few hours later and he gave me an emoji to which I didnt respond. Women take a different stance with many things that dont go along with their male counterpart Pisces would agree with. He told me that we could work through it. This will aid you in figuring out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. You have a right to do this when youre left in the air with it. Tell him what it is that you really want and then ask him what it is he really wants because you feel hes keeping you at somewhat of a distance. Next weekend came nothing he is busy with studies. If this happens, he'll be more motivated to get you back. check out my 3-step formula for a Pisces man. What should I do. But its only until he fully trusts you that he may start to change his ways. If someone ghosted on you, it's because you seemed disinterested, or were making it seem as though you wouldn't have space for that person in your life. We have classes together and hes doing the same things to get my attention. I wish you the best! This is all just a test to see how far he can push things with you, and he gets a rise out of how you respond. This is probably what is going on with him right now. I got home late and we didnt get to meet that night. I cant pay for anything online either so I thought it would be best to just tell you. I sent an apology email, and I messaged him on messenger, apologizing and asking to be unblocked. They are amazing but its getting that trust as you mentioned is what makes it last. Give him a chance to explain. Wishing you the best! Constantly pulling out on plans is something that indicates that hes not serious about you and you may want to consider moving on to find someone who wont flake out on you. I wasnt expecting to like him this time. But I also dont want to be wasting my time. Im inclined to think that it is family stuff or stuff with friends. So 2 months back he called me trying to see me but unfortunately he got busy and had to cancel and he was apologetic about it. I have never asked him for money and asking him for money for birth control has always happened and his always sent it and weve discussed it so its not unusual. Be careful sweetheart. we meet again at a family meeting he was tall grown and unrecognizable we didnt realzed we met when were younger until we talked he was my type and of the bat, I liked him so I started doing little things (flirting) but he also seemed interested and was flirting back then next thing I know I try to leave the room we were in the quietly says Also whats with the empty promises.. Maybe his not planning to take me out anywhere not even a date. He didnt respond. I lost my job for about a year and some months now and hes been really supportive financially and sometimes would give me what little money he has without me having to ask or without hesitation. He tells me hes not taken me for granted but his responses to my supportive behavior are very vague if he even responds at all. He made me introduce to his friends and wanted me to meet his family but never initiate any form of physical intimacy. I love him so much. I didnt think that I liked him, but I did think he was cute. How does a Pisces man test you? It is difficult for us people of other signs, Scorpio in my case, to understand how their mind thinks like that, but they do, and all we can do is to observe from afar the strangeness of this mindset. He gets quiet but if I call him out on something he will I guess be honest. Ill tell you its not like that at all! I think hes just trying to play me still thats why I wont get attached but he calls me bae in text messages like he wants me to start giving him attention again. I also hate their MIA act even over the weekend. Take Time To Read The Message. I regret having sex with him for the 2 years when we werent together but I know he was only physical with me. It seems unfair to me. Im sorry you learned the hard way sweetheart. If he acts super sensitive and is playing the victim card just realize that he is trying to test his boundaries with you. There is a terrible side to your Pisces man, and that is he can be really non-committal and nonchalant about things. Marriage therapist Nicole Richardson says she's seen people who . What are your thoughts please. A flaky man is a man that isnt invested. If you need more Pisces help, check out my book. Leo and Pisces Compatibility - 2 years. So last week he finally texted me and we made plans to see on another. Ive apologized for our argument which he didnt on his part but admitted to being wrong about not telling mewho he was hanging out with. Long story short the first week of may he tells me hes been going to help a friend move and thats going through things. Ouch yes pain can make you say and do horrible things. 8 signs he'll come back 1) He ghosted you by mistake How can someone ghost you by mistake? He told me hell just leave me alone. Thats the real question to which I am not sure I have the answer. 4 months into dating he said he loved me but I couldnt say it back. 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